I've got you!!  

I'm also guessing you would like to rewind time and react in a different way. 

 In the beginning your fear of what porn use means usually runs the show.  Fear is not the emotion we want to fuel our relationships with our kids or their porn use.  

You also might be feeling like you failed them. 

 If only you would have had more safe guards in place, not given your child a phone, or internet access. 

That might all be true or not true but here we are and we want to help our child navigate porn use from a place of self love and compation.  What you may not know is porn use makes our kids feel so crappy about themselves.  Porn messes with their feelings of worth.  Shame begins to run the show in their lives and making choices from shame will always bring them back to porn.   We want to empower them, and you as the parent has so much to offer them to help them leave the shame cycle and begin to let their higher brain make decisions and begin to rebuild their self worth.    We need to show them they have infinite worth, and their worth does not change with porn use.  We also want to help them understand that porn use can affect future relationships and the relationship they have with themselves when unmanaged.

  If you didn't show up for your child like you hoped you would, I'm here to tell you it's ok! 

 It's not to late to help your child navigate this in a shame free way that will create a life without porn use.